I would have never been able to heal if it weren’t for the friends and partners who came into my life.
They showed me love, support, and safety.
They taught me how I could trust myself and how I could start to let go.
This page is dedicated to all the partners and friends of people affected by sexual child abuse and trauma. Here you will find resources to understand the effects of trauma and help those who need it the most.
Can we live free of #trauma as if it has never happened? or do we gain more #understanding and become better at dealing with it so it doesn’t impact us as much…
#ptsd #sexualabuse #csa #childabuse #triggers
Every time Grey wants to control Anastacia, I see similar instances in our daily lives. The only difference is that it happens without the Hollywood Effect.
#feelingsafe #healing #csa #ptsd #trauma #fiftyshadesofgrey
She says “All my life, I tried my best to give you everything but I feel like a failure that I wasn’t able to make you happy”
#ptsd #angeroutbursts #healing #reconciliation #compassionatelistening #acceptance
So I have lashed out at my parents. I have been rude and have said hurtful things. What do I do now?
#angeroutburst #ptsd #childhoodabuse #resentment #rubyusman #healing
Anger outbursts suck, don’t they? Sometimes, we lash out at others but most of the times, we lash out at ourselves by shutting down, disconnecting and denying love.
#anger #ptsd #sexualabuse #rubiversity #childabuse #csa
Ever wondered what a male response to being with a female survivor is? Ever wondered what do males want in sex? Wonder no more…
#femalesurvivor #sex #csa #partnership #consent #boundaries #feelingsafe
As a #survivor, I have relied on my #partners to create the sense of #safety for me but recently, I had an opportunity to create my own #sexualsafety. The result was #ecstatic… #rubiversity #csa #sex
Do we continue our lives in withdrawal, pain and hurt or do we face the pain and our vulnerability and allow it to dissolve? And what happens when we don’t? I interviewed Zac to ask some of these questions.
I really wanted to know how male partners thought and felt about sex when they were with a female survivour. Well! I asked and their responses have shocked me (in a good way)…
Sometimes when we are feeling the most hopeless, the universe sends us these guides, angels and friends who restore our faith in this life and who help us be hopeful again. My life would have never been the same without these angels…